He said it was the way they unwind their minds that are on overload. The Blind Guy starts is ridiculed because no one has experienced the Statue like him, some of the seeing may experience some of the things, but dont understand the blind man not knowing what blue was and what it depicted, the blind man man has a lot more information about the statue, but has no way of describing it the way most people see it.

Very much what he wants and not much what you want. There is nothing really wrong with her she just doesnt think like I do. All it did was turn everyone against me even more.

Every real symptom can be explained by a combination of biochemistry and consciousness studies none of which needs any of the cult speak of psychiatry. Heres the kicker though: I think I might be somewhere on the autism spectrum AND a narcissist. If someone is doing something stupid, you cannot jump inside their brain to stop them, they need to use their brain to stop themselves, the responsibility is not yours.) Im a laid back person & im used to him not talking to me & wanting his own space to do his own thing & not socialising , but sometimes he gets me so stressed I end up with a bad headache & feel sick. I am so glad I am not the only one struggling with this diagnosis dilemma.

Research I have found has moved me forward in my understanding. I know in my heart that Im not a bad man. ), general poisoning mould, pesticides, F-, pharma, do I need to add heavy metals and Aluminium to all this?? I cannot change her, she is the way she is.

I was also supporting my brother during his own lifes difficulties due to childhood sexual abuse which I knew nothing about. Do not expect the person to ever have empathy or compassion for you. Interesting question for sure. The narcissist harms other people because they are harmed themselves. My moms husbands seems to have both Aspergers and covert narcissism. I didnt realize that but it makes sense. Lol the good thing is it forced me to figure it all by myself.. i got a master degree in narcissistic disorder lol and now i spot them from miles away. The more I got to know him I realized he would talk incessantly about himself, his daughters, his hobbies, his past job in law enforcement, his health. I been destroyed and they tried to ruin my life up to .. erasing it for decades. The unabomber didnt want to be touched by his parents when child and more autismtypical traits. Hey everyone look my father is a liar he said he gave me x money but here the proof he never did, he used it to gamble on stock market. things like that. However I seem to have entered a happy final phase. 086 079 7114 [email protected]. I now understand my daughter a whole lot better and why she thinks like she does. I found it very difficult to find someone that would diagnose adult autism. Theres an increased risk of social trauma from bullying, abuse, and alienation. They teamed up on me to make me guilt trip and think its truly me the problem since they all agree that it is me. He intentionally ruined an 18 year old's party." He doesnt feel he does anything wrong and when I try to tell him how I feel and he calls them lectures and adds them to the list.

Guess who was chosing me? They both have symptoms, one has very severe migraines that incapacitate her for days at a time, the other gets depressed from time to time and has a continual mild epileptic condition treated by medication which hell probably have to go on taking for the rest of his life. All I said to her was that she struggled with things like object constancy and devaluation etc. This can be difficult, but I found if I distanced myself and stuck to the basics and very few of those, and avoided being baited, narcissists are very good at baiting, I could then walk away each time. Ive found I can be friendly and develop some important close relationships, inspite of the stubborn Narcissist/autistic barage of put downs and emotional abuse from him. No one backstab me or do things that enable me to get into much deeper trouble. If they do this, then they are Narcissistic, if they dont then it is Asbergers. He came from a very isolated situation where he was taught only to depend on himself and never ask to borrow or lend off anyone else. Narcissism IS high functioning autism where intervention has failed and been fooled by a child desperate to survive and appear normal as they approach teens and social survival starts to become paramount. My family story is full to the brim with the human condition and how it can impact the members of an afflicted family. Perhaps if you did some research yourself on narcissism and manipulation you may get a better sense of whether this is happening to you or not. My way to determine the difference is via the behaviour called gasslighting. I want to share my home with my loved ones but he makes it so unconfortable I have to do this outside of my home. Lack of empathy is an obvious contributor, but lack of flexible thinking, a higher demand for control (mainly with environment), and repetitive patterns (manifested in special interests). If you are in a relationship with a person on the autism spectrum, it is helpful to know how to take care of yourself. Narcissism or Aspergers? Thank you again for making contact and please take very good care of yourself.Mind, Body and Soul. Its a complicated subject matter and can cause great distress. I can relate to much of what you have said as far as the narcissistic partner, and how it destroys the very fabric of who you are. I feel terrible about what I did. Oh i was not that smart i mean it was crazy to do that but with the list of things i was dealing with (ADHD, autism, bipolar, borderline, ptsd, violence etc) i guess i was allowed to not be perfect? The problem is I know my father is an narcissist, I have thought that for many years. When we returned from our trip after we had a falling out he said its just my personality to find fault with everything. Great info! Just listen Dont confuse a narcissist with Aspergers syndrome.

I hope Ive now got an extra ten years up my sleeve. When I read the report in the link, it certainly described her situation. A truly beautiful person. I have no control over thiis as its the decision of the individual to decide for themselves. He will pick up every small thing around the house I do, particularly when he gets stressed. I am married and have been for 6 yrs. Break up and never look back. Break up and never look back.

Im too strong of a person to let the pain and frustration linger for too long; but at the moment my curiosities are running on high, high octane searching for answers given the information and memories I have of our brief relationship. Break up and never look back. The bipolar seems to be more like borderline disorder than bipolar even though my family as strong bipolar genes. Thanks for listening. Recognize that if your partner hurts you, it is not intentional. I now realise this constant bashing I experienced was in part because I was such an easy target as an autistic person and also a constant thorn in their sides because 1. All my life i had to discover the answers all by myself.

As I began to read it helped me greatly to understand our situation and how it had got to this place. I have therapists and psy because i just have no choice. I never solved it, it just wasnt there any more. Observe the persons behavior, dont absorb it. She has become calmer, I think mainly because she knows she is not alone but that she is one like many others out there. but regularly interrups whatever I am doing to demand attention NOW. Risk of autistic burnout. As to empathy, that of course is the ability to put yourself in another persons situation (or shoes ! ) She has gained a great deal from some of the information and has been able to relate to information in these non fiction books.

Luckily the most vital ones are on the autistic spectrum. Take care with this as you may need support when you tackle this issue. Were taking time apart now as he thinks were not compatible because I didnt show enough interest in some historical place we were at and I lectured for an hour (was really about 15) about a subject I liked while at another historical place and he feels the list has gotten too long.. Should I chalk it up or try to understand this affectionate but one sided man? Like today . Psychiatrists say its me that learned, for survival, to mimic my family, my parents. Subscribe me to the GoodTherapy.org public newsletter. I have a very interesting inner life trying and making sense of my life to the present moment but have no idea whether all this info could be used to move therapy to a better place with unarguable regulation for all. Six months ago I had a friendship with a chap who, now I believe, is on the Autistic/Narcissistic spectrum displaying unusual behaviour from time to time. I hate liars and evils but that i have to deal with it as everyone is around me so well ya lol. Our grandson has a milder case but enough where you can tell he is in his own wonderful world. He is kind, considerate, loving, thoughtful, caring and tells me everyday how much I mean to him and how loved I am. Im a Christian and like the verse that says He that covers over his sins shall not prosper and vengeance is mine, I will repay and he who troubles his house shall inherit the wind. I love the comparative chart that you have listed above because looking at that you really do notice the big differences between the two; whereas if you are just looking at someone with their surface behaviors, you might think that they are one and the same. Our marriage ended after 25 years and was through my choice in asking him to leave. Narcs if only they could self-destroy each other instead of trying to beat the few good people that are left in this world haa :(. He said I it was from a 30 year job in law enforcement where that is accepted but I think its just the way he is like he has no clue not to do it. I had spent the past 20 odd years trying to help my husband and felt a tremendous amount of guilt because of things he would say to me. 1. Break up and never look back. I feel hesitant to move in with someone who has only shown fondness for me and still cant refer to me by anything but my proper name or Missy. I dont know why I cant stop caring about him. we live in a world of extremes of both and there is your answer. I keep reading that we dont recover but I i imagine there has to be something that works, both for me and people that encounter me. Author clearly has major prejudice against people with narcissism. Others dont want to see me.. i dont want to see them gg lol. This will require patience and perseverance.

Narcissistic personality disorder is not the same as autism. He can be as sweet as pie and can be mean and cruel I suspected autisim (his nephew has a more than moderate case living with supervision in a home). She lives with me. Depression, by Paul Hauck I think I may be a Narcissist/Sociopath. 9. I met my second wife, and same thing happened, but it lasted longer (the books and strategies worked). We have both worked hard to make our marriage work but I felt so hurt today when he seemed anxious because my sister came to visit me, I have just had a major operation and she came over to give me some company and was gone before he got home. The person with ASD lacks intuition whereas the narcissist uses their intuition as a tool for securing their One woman explained her narcissistic partner so well and all the things that had been happening to her and how she had such a guilt complex, that I could see my situation and this was a turning point in my life as well. 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Now ignoring email without consequence is standard. Since they were all teaming up on me, i had no allies, i had no help. My personal view is that some on the autism spectrum can relate to animals far easier than they can to their fellow humans. Oberman, K., & Ramachandan, V. (2007, June 1). Understand you have to do things on your own. Goodness me!!! With the publication of the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), this label disappeared, replaced by autism spectrum. Mel, how is your reading comprehension? Now we meet every 2 weeks, and have a chat and a coffee, we still have interests and ideas and views in common so plenty to talk about. Broken mirrors: A theory of autism. He has recently come to terms with the fact he may have high functioning autism. I didnt consider narcissism but some of those traits fit too. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) occurs on a spectrum. 2. Hang in there life does get better you just have to find that way out. We have a good relationship, and she has a learning disability which makes me learn more towards autism, but there are some glaring narcissistic traits as well.

It does a lot of harm how many people do you think dont get diagnosed because they have lots of enoathy so therefor believe they cannot be autistic? it does seem possible to have both or at least traits of both. I can prove all my allegations, its the sad truth that more than just me live. He is oddly competitive with me and mirrors whatever I do achievement wise or what I have going on with me in my life he thinks he does too. I had no idea how narcissism presented itself in relationships and have read a lot about it as time has passed. All men, whether having pituitary damage or nor are already in a testosterone-diminishing environment, and testosterone gets lower with age. I know that for sure. Narcs want to be adored and to maintain control; if they pissed me off, I would not be able to hide it OR let it go. Then dont be responsible for what they think); I am not my brothers keeper (in other words everyone has a brain, what we do with that brain counts. If it happened to me, it could happen to anybody. If he werent so old as he is, (8 yrs older than me,) with mitigating family concerns, Id divorce now. Still they can write down on a sheet of paper all the traits and signs i have of all the abuse but then when i put them in front of the reality they all suddenly become retarded on purpose and tell me i blame others for my failures its all my fault i need more more therapy always more therapy! We have been in our current home for four years, and its part of a rental scheme where the rent is below market value. I wish you luck with your maturation as time moves on. I learned that my breakdown was caused not by the stress of change of job and moving house to another county. Hello Freja, I understand there are four levels of autism. that its my fault that bla bla.. they tortured me.. guilt trip me.. they enjoyed the god dam narcs they knew they wouldnt have more chances after THEN after days saying they had no found.. that it was useless to ask after 1 hour with me on 10 days empty stomach.. dizzy and all lost they popped food and lied telling me my other therapist was bringing me to food bank last time but i missed the appointment (trying to earn money online to eat!) People can tolerate some poisoning in the above or they can tolerate being in anti-social clean environments but they can not do both Who says Autism isnt normal as it has to be normal for an Autistic person doesnt it, and how does a sufferer explain these difficulties to a prospective partner. It has brought me to a place where I find myself valuating my life, my relationships. Elizabeth he is a narcissist, I lived with one for 38 years and he almost destroyed me and his family in the process of trying to be in control. Yes both types are egocentric and lacking in empathy but it seems to me the motives and methods are almost completely opposite. i have autism and im not one-dimensional. They are blind.. they see nothing. I have a 32 year old daughter who still lives with me and has high functioning autism, her personality is nothing like his was. Some of the seeing form opinions, that the Blind guy is just being obstinate or purposely manipulative, because he knows more about the statue than the rest of the room, and pretends to not be able to describe the image or colour. But its hard to feed from happiness these days.. everyone is so in the dark :( .

salesforce vs google teamblind narcissist pretending to be autistic. I am very smart and could rebuild my life maybe im still 38 yo so i could. These experiences and many many more in life, has contributed to a metaphor, this has helped me clarify what happens in life, Imagine: group of 10 people in a room with a small bust in the centre of the people sitting around it, one person is totally blind (but he has no idea he is) The other seeing people dont know hes blind but just has some peculiar mannerisms, everyone is talking about the lovely blue marble bust of a Queen. Even if i am myself very smart allowing to study on my own and discover things others couldnt etc. Narcissists have a way of getting you back, its called guilt. 8. Time has passed since I wrote those comments and I can say the journey to recover from the relationship with that afflicted person has been very difficult. Does he object if you want to go out independently, and if so he may well be narcissistic in his behaviour. Now they act as those never existed. They pushed me and then sometimes helped or suggested me student loan or something like that, that they would sign for me etc. But he also has always needed to be in control and cannot accept the thought that he is not so does all he can to remain in control. Of course the house wont pass to him unless you make provision. I think my brother and sister, both younger than me, were abused too but they dont remember anything, and they dont believe what my story. Im not a therapist and dont profess to be one. There are so many toxic and dangerous beliefs out there as a result of neurotypical people writing about autism. But living with them 24-7 is a different matter. Dont know what to do, just not respond to his texts or keep the dialogue going. Narcissism actually exists on a continuum where at its most severe you have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), not Antisocial/ Sociopathic personality as is suggested in the article. In the past I have family here If he goes away camping for the weekend etc but I want to be able to have my door open for them not just on those occassions. While I absolutely LOVE being right and will happily crow about it when I am, I am actually more interested in finding THE TRUTH than in being right and I can readily admit to being wrong or making a mistake.

If I get upset about something he says Im too sensitive and were not compatible. I dread moving house, because I know as soon as we move in hell be telling me we need to move out. She now feels much better about herself and her anxiety levels have gone down somewhat.

I understand medication is a great deal better these days, but would it have made a difference back then, I doubt it. When we look at the relationships that NPDs get into, the other person is often vulnerable in some way and time and time again, I am finding that when we look at the parents of NPDs, one is NPD and the other is ASD. Some good results for my brother once the assessments were concluded. Its your personal journey and it sounds as though you need specific support, for some reasonable time. He blames others for whatever happens, he was in denial at the beginning when he should have been organising the whole country to pull together, and it is still not pulling together. But hes manipulative & very Nasty, when we have words and always blames me for everything within the conversation , if I make a comment he takes it a derogatory comment towards him & after 25yrs Ive learnt how to word my comments, as I know he doesnt take the blame he has the ability to make you believe everything that said is my fault ( he was like that with his 1st wife ) but cannot see it .

5. I tried to encourage him to get himself assessed but he said he didnt see the point given his age he didnt think it would be beneficial. I cant go to his house anymore so he comes to mine and can only see me the same days of the week, it bothers him to change the schedule, Mon, Wed, Sat evenings for the last 9 months now. I suspect that will be a harder mystery to unpick. Yet they can really convince people they are the nicest, caring, FUN people you would want to spend time with. I have been with my partner for more than 12 years now. A double minded man is unstable in all of their ways. Theres likely been more erronously diagnoses in history. My father (boss in healthcare) made me get fired after i discovered his fraudulent scheme. Could it be your loved one displays symptoms of both? Ive started to see a counselor to gain better understanding of myself and to try to change but Im now worries that maybe my narcissistic side is manipulating this poor fellow and were just pretending to deal with things that arent the root cause of my problems that ultimately present as abuse or neglect of my spouse. "This dude waited until he threw up. All I ever wanted was to be valued and to feel like I was an important person in his life. He then showed me her photo on his phone and I lost it, knocking the phone out of his hand. If you go as psy you must want to help, make people feel better.. not destroy them or make them worst.
We were not monogamous. I have experienced one of the rages and they are pretty Soul shaking events.

The answer is that they are. . What should we do if our loved one possesses traits of both? It is a neurologically caused developmental condition. I get silence which is painful to me but caused by his inability to communicate. I will note these books, one of which he was recommended by his therapist.The Body Keeps The Score. Thought I would add my 2 I have been aware of having Aspergers Syndrome for 18 years (Im 55 now), most of the above is true from a Nuerotypical point of view, I have been married twice, they both failed, after about three years, my first wife just got increasingly frustrated and angry, I became increasingly sad, as I couldnt work out why she was becoming more angry and abusive. Hed tell me my emotions were too much for him while bragging all day about how well he handled However the Blind person cannot fathom how they know so much about it, so he gets up and eventually fumbling feels the statue lifts it, the texture, centre of gravity and many extra details you get from that sort of examination ( please pretend everyone else didnt notice the blind guy doing this) The blind guy tries to contribute to the conversation but no one relates to what hes talking about, because they have only observed the colour appearance and possible texture. if I may add it to this reply.

hell often make comments about other peoples teeth and how he wishes his looked like that, or says things like I bet they dont have the problems with their teeth I do.. But @ times he really gets to me & upsets me with his behaviour ! He has qualities from both sides of the chart straight from the top to the bottom. If one reads up about some of the brilliant high functioning autistic people in this world, and individuals that have been perceived to be on the spectrum, some have done some amazing things. This has happened to me several times.

I have also recently realised that there is a recognised name for how my hub makes me feel energy vampire . I have listed them here with a bit of an explanation, and perhaps they may be of help to you: a person is not responsible for how another thinks (in other words, do you expect others to be responsible for how you think? The one thing narcissists dont have is empathy. I was born into what seems to me to be a family of narcs and was terribly bullied, abused and scapegoated both as a child and as an adult in the end I had to cut contact with my whole family. I get your point. Any assistance with this will be highly appreciated and therapeutic for me. I did briefly contemplate he may be autistic given there are some similarities in behaviour but on reflection I dont believe this to be so. The reason Im relating this is because whether a person is Autistic or otherwise they are people!!!! As far as possible I stay away from him and try to remember not to start a conversation. I wondered how anyone with narcissism could show empathy or how people on ASD could be social. And in this situation knowing he is a narcissist has taken a lot of my wounding away from our very difficult relationship and I have come to terms with how our relationship is. The man spoke to the doctor about the world he sees out there as being like chaos and how he needs order in his life. 4. Everything at the right time to make me fail all i try to achieve and dig dig always with that massive guilt moutain they keep building to push me to suicide. Although I still dont believe he is. I was successful except on two occasions where I completely broke down. I am peaceful, i dont work against others. I feel like you wrote this just for me. I have no attacks, no one everyday is trying to ruin my life. 1 More posts you may like r/narcissisticparents Join How did you come to this conclusion?

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